I've thought about this a great deal, Allison. The "shadow self" often morphs into a totally fake persona, which really bugs me. Some people are so focused on presenting a perfect version of themselves because they're afraid others will see their flaws. I try to stay true to myself and not to worry too much about everybody liking me. I tend to be honest to a fault and sometimes disregard my filter. You're so right about feelings of shame being as a potential powder keg. Truth be told, we're all complex creatures and attempting to conceal parts of ourselves can be destructive. We all have both extroverted and introverted qualities. The balance can be tricky but needs no explanation.
Shame is an unmitigated B***h in my life. My shadow self all too real, although at the same time I am brutally honest and possess zero filter when others would opt to employ theirs. I spend half my life not caring what people think and the other half kidding myself that I don’t. This gave me a lot to think about. You always do, AM. Sending love back. JB (PS: Is that Winnie? I love this shot, it says so much, but I think this pup is too small?)
I think the modern world likes to press us into a mould. We don’t have to break the mould we just have to stop ourselves being pressed into it. I have learnt in the last few years especially that I need to let myself just be. Life’s more fun that way! ❤️♥️❤️
Just as I was about to follow Janet's lead and mix that libation, I noticed something interesting in this photograph. The dog casts no shadow. They are so much more evolved than we.
Love your take on it…you’re a beautifully authentic writer! I am at a crossroads in my life awakening to the realization that I’m married to someone who wants my shadow self to remain hidden more than me😉I believe it may be time to break free if I’m ever going to really embrace and love myself fully. I recommend a great book, “Meeting the Shadow: The Hidden Power of the Dark Sode of Human Nature by Connie Zweig” I have been a longtime fan of you and Hayes’ music but I have become a huge fan of your writing because I can relate to it & it gives me hope that I still have the strength & energy to create a new authentic life for myself so thank you! ❤️
I've thought about this a great deal, Allison. The "shadow self" often morphs into a totally fake persona, which really bugs me. Some people are so focused on presenting a perfect version of themselves because they're afraid others will see their flaws. I try to stay true to myself and not to worry too much about everybody liking me. I tend to be honest to a fault and sometimes disregard my filter. You're so right about feelings of shame being as a potential powder keg. Truth be told, we're all complex creatures and attempting to conceal parts of ourselves can be destructive. We all have both extroverted and introverted qualities. The balance can be tricky but needs no explanation.
Shame is an unmitigated B***h in my life. My shadow self all too real, although at the same time I am brutally honest and possess zero filter when others would opt to employ theirs. I spend half my life not caring what people think and the other half kidding myself that I don’t. This gave me a lot to think about. You always do, AM. Sending love back. JB (PS: Is that Winnie? I love this shot, it says so much, but I think this pup is too small?)
I love you❤
I think the modern world likes to press us into a mould. We don’t have to break the mould we just have to stop ourselves being pressed into it. I have learnt in the last few years especially that I need to let myself just be. Life’s more fun that way! ❤️♥️❤️
…Sorry I forgot to say that our shadow self is often where the light is hiding, if that makes any sense 🤣🤔🥸
Very thought provoking. Lord, I'm gonna need a drink to contemplate my shadow.
Just as I was about to follow Janet's lead and mix that libation, I noticed something interesting in this photograph. The dog casts no shadow. They are so much more evolved than we.
Love your take on it…you’re a beautifully authentic writer! I am at a crossroads in my life awakening to the realization that I’m married to someone who wants my shadow self to remain hidden more than me😉I believe it may be time to break free if I’m ever going to really embrace and love myself fully. I recommend a great book, “Meeting the Shadow: The Hidden Power of the Dark Sode of Human Nature by Connie Zweig” I have been a longtime fan of you and Hayes’ music but I have become a huge fan of your writing because I can relate to it & it gives me hope that I still have the strength & energy to create a new authentic life for myself so thank you! ❤️