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Peter Cass's avatar

I may have mentioned it before but, I was 15 when my mum died and kept my grief inside. Several years later when I was well into my 20s, it all came out in a very dramatic way. I can’t remember what triggered the release but, I cried and cried for hours. Don’t consciously suppress one of those waves when it comes.

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JB's avatar

"Something from forty years ago can still send us into the ditch for hours."

Honestly, I don't know how you do it AM but someone from forty years ago has recently sent me into the ditch for almost two weeks now. I have been grieving hard.

Jan, there is no other way but to do it what AM says. Allow yourself to grieve. You must have based your decisions on something that only you know is right for you.

Allison. being married three times doesn't make you the person NOT to ask. It makes you someone I would run to to ask.

Good luck, Jan, Follow your heart.

Thank you, AM. I'm trying right now to figure out how to address my own situation. This, as always, helps.

JB

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